The Hardest Scene in Fiction: The Sex Scene

The rules on writing sex are changing.

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If you told me a year ago that I would be an expert on sex scenes in 2021, I would have quit my job before they fired me.

Sex scenes are notoriously difficult to pull off. You can’t get away with much telling. You have to consider the setting. Character feelings. How to show those feelings through…




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